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Leanne de Souza's avatar

For me (an Australian adoptee) I find the most challenging thing about all things "mothers' day/s" is that it is still all about them. As babies and children we had no agency in decisions that impacted us for life. Once I became a mother myself any enjoyment of "that day" with my own children took decades to overcome the anxiety of managing any expectations and the 'other' mothers' emotional needs. It is tiring. I decided not to celebrate or acknowledge the public construction of the day at all and put my own needs first now on this one.

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cparadise1's avatar

Another profound and beautiful essay--thank you, Tony.

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